The Dark Side of Work and Achievement The Dark Side of Work and Achievement
Keila Shaheen and Connie Zweig, Ph.D. · Nov 3, 2025 · 3 min read
Unmasking the Parts of Us That Strive, Compete, and CollapseWe spend much of our lives at work when creating, building, striving, and performing. For many of us, work isn’t just what we do anymore. It’s who we are.Our careers shape our identities, determine our rhythms, and sometimes even define our self-worth. Yet, in the same space where we seek validation and purpose, the shadow quietly dwells.When Dr. Connie and I sat down for this week’s conversation, we explored what happens when our work becomes an “adult playground for the shadow”, a space where hidden patterns of people-pleasing, cont